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God Works Through the Unlikely
© 2007 by Jean-Christine
LeGendre
Mrs. Humble. I never knew her
first name. This little white-haired lady crossed my
path for about twenty-minutes a dozen years ago, but
I’ve never forgotten her.
I’ve finally figured out why.
All those years ago, prolonged illness
forced my grandmother to relocate to Tampa. The move
took place over the Christmas holiday, which required a
layover in a transitional assisted-living facility.
Night had fallen by the time I arrived
to welcome her to town, but I found a side entrance
unlocked and the facility surprisingly busy. Patients
milled through the halls in wheelchairs, behind walkers
or with canes. As I made my way to the elevators and the
third floor, I came across a lady with tufty white hair
and a smile that stopped me from halfway down the hall.
She wore a faded nightdress and a neat black shoe. Only
one. She was an amputee.
I returned her smile as she angled her
wheelchair to force me to stop.
“I need to use the bathroom,” she said.
“Will you take me?”
Not exactly what I expected, but after
helping out during my grandmother’s illness, I managed
not to miss a beat. “Let’s see if we can find someone to
help you.”
She nodded agreeably, so I circled the
wheelchair, grabbed the handles and wheeled her in the
direction I hoped led to help. We found a nurses’
station, but no nurses. Instead elderly folks milled
around the desk as if they’d taken over. One man had
propped his cane against a chair and had taken a seat
beside some sort of monitoring device. From behind the
desk a woman with steely curls and dazzling red lipstick
scowled as if visiting hours were long over. I asked the
new regime where the staff had gone and received vague
replies about patients’ rooms and parties.
“I need to use the bathroom,” my new
charge reminded.
Clearly I needed alternate plan B.
“Where’s your room?”
She shrugged and gave me a big smile.
No problem. The doors had nameplates.
“I’m Jeanie. And you are?”
Her smile widened, and she gave another
shrug.
Now I was in trouble. So I did what I
always do when anxious, I babble. Heading back down the
hall, I speculated about where the staff might be while
trying to drown out worry about whether or not my
grandmother would actually survive a week here. I
wandered down one hall then another, hoping a nurse
would ride to the rescue. Or my little lady would
suddenly remember who she was. But I couldn’t abandon
her with out at least finding a public restroom.
Then God tossed me a lifeline. It came
in the form of a prosthesis, which I glimpsed propped
against a night table through the open doorway of a
patient’s room.
Left leg. Neat black shoe.
I glanced down at my little lady--right
leg, neat black shoe--then at the door’s name plate.
“Looks like we’re here, Mrs. Humble.”
I eventually made it upstairs to my
grandmother’s room, where I learned the facility had
been hosting a Christmas party. Staff members had been
popping in and out of the break room between duties all
night.
My grandmother moved on a few days
later, and I never saw Mrs. Humble again. But there was
something about her I’ve never been able to forget. Her
smile? The circumstances of our meeting? Admittedly, I
don’t get stellar moments all that often and looking
back, I was glad I’d taken the high road and helped out.
I’ve never been sure.
Until this morning when a
thought-provoking homily helped me understand that I
hadn’t taken the high road on that day long ago, but had
acted out of love for my fellow man. It wasn’t any big
deal. It wasn’t anything I had a right to be proud of. I
simply did what Jesus calls us all to do.
It took a dozen years, but I finally get
it. Thank you, Mrs. Humble. |